The presence of a good woman in a man’s life undoubtedly makes it more colorful. When work related stress takes a toll on your day, nothing is more soothing than hearing the voice of your loved one over the phone or even meeting her. Many committed guys claim that the fairer sex can indeed make a bumpy ride of life much smoother. However, there are many single guys across the world trying desperately to woo the woman of their dreams and have been failing at it. For many of these, it is even hard to imagine pursuing a life without that pretty damsel. Here’s an article which might just be a huge sigh of relief to those who are trying to sweep that girl off her feet. These are 30 ways of leaving your dream girl floored and wanting for more. It’s high time you incorporate at least a few of these tips into your mannerisms.
1. Getting To Know Her Better
Women love talking about their lives in length and that should ideally be the purpose of the date, if you want to leave a lasting impression.
2. Appear Well-Groomed
Being well dressed with neatly combed hair will definitely earn you a lot of brownie points. So do spare a few minutes in trimming your facial hair and ironing your clothes before going on that date.
3. Make Eye-Contact
This is the golden rule of dating a woman. The fairer sex always prefers a partner who can hold eye contact for long durations during a conversation. This is generally considered to be an attractive trait of a man by women world over.
4. Ignore Your Phone
Answering phone calls during a date is a strict no-no, especially when it’s your first romantic outing. The woman would really appreciate that you would silence your phone while she’s talking.
5. Being Comfortable With Her Buddies
One of the best ways of impressing a woman is gaining acceptance within her social circles. If you hit it off really well with your friends, you stand a great chance.
6. Taking Her Suggestions/Advice
Asking her suggestion or a piece of advice would make her feel important and create an impression that her opinions matter a lot to you.
7. Not Showing Desperation
Trying too hard to impress will not only ruin your chances of impressing her, and might even scare her and create an impression of an obsessive lover in her mind. It is really important to show that you are not desperate and gain her trust, so you first need to calm down.
Compliments help a great deal with your chances of impressing your dream woman, provided they seem genuine. However, overdoing it might make it seem that you are just faking it.
9. Sense Of Humor
A man who can gift a few rib-tickling moments to remember usually gets the thumbs-up from the opposite sex.
10. Confidence & Ease
Yes, please don’t be nervous, else all your efforts will turn into vain. A date is not an interview with the highest paying corporate firm in the world. A relaxed man who speaks confidently almost instantly wins a woman’s heart.
The idea of pulling a chair for a woman has become a subject of debate due to the hue and cry of ‘equality’, but being chivalrous does help to a great extent. Holding her bag when she needs to wear a coat and similar small acts of chivalry, make a huge difference.
12. Stop Glorifying Yourself
Spare yourself from being a self-obsessed guy, at least on your date. Citing a few instances of your interesting side is okay, but too much self-bragging can kill your chances easily.
13. No Signs Of Insecurity
Even while she’s dating you, your dream girl might want to spend some time with her friends, which might include guys as well. Constantly calling her or texting to find out what she’s up to while she’s spending time with her will only leave the girl irked.
14. Taking Initiative
After you guys hit it off really well during the date, it’s your turn to pave the way for more romantic outings. Take the initiative to plan a long drive towards that picturesque hillock or even the latest blockbuster.
15. A Nice Thought Behind A Simple Gesture
Might sound like an old school idea, but gathering the orchids in your garden in a basket or recycling a piece of cardboard into something creative for your girl will put a wide smile on her face. Even if your effort results in a funny product, she will still appreciate the fact that you have spent so much of time in making a gift for her.
16. Understanding Her Needs
You might hate chic flicks and spending hours at a shopping mall, but your girl absolutely adores pampering herself with these. It would be definitely kind of you to accompany your sweetheart in such outings.
17. Compassionate Towards Animals & Other Fellow Humans
Most women are pet lovers, so it’s better that you subtly bring it to her notice that you have adopted a stray, which shows your concern towards other living beings. Even the way you address the waiter at a restaurant matters a great deal.
18. Honesty & Transparency
If you really like that girl then it’s better that you let her know about your intentions. Of course, don’t do it in your first meeting and leave her stumped. Spend some time with her, analyze if she is the right match and then confess. She would really like your gesture, because she won’t be in a state of ambiguity and your relationship would seem more practical after your intentions are revealed.
19. Don’t Smoke
Smoking is a big turn off, and apart from the dating, it also ruins your health. If the girl does know that you smoke, try avoiding puffs when she’s around and assure that you are trying to kick the habit.
20. Passion Impresses
Women prefer men who are passionate about something in life and ardently follow it, rather than a man who’s not clear about where he’s heading.
21. Be A Motivator
If she is on the verge of giving up any task (like looking for funds for a new venture) due to negative experiences, motivate her to keep her going. Even if she’s bogged down by work pressure, your words should aid her in coping with the tough times. Try doing that and it’s really difficult for the girl to not be smitten by you.
22. Don’t Show Off
One of the biggest myths in the world is that a lot of money and fancy cars will make women go weak on their knees. From a woman’s perspective, what’s the use of dating a filthy rich man, if he treats people around him like a doormat?
23. Avoid Playing Games
Pick up artists online might suggest that acting a bit pricey and not replying to her texts or calls in a bid to show that you are not ‘desperate’ would help. However, women can sniff games easily and your chances would end easily.
24. Body Language
A good posture and the way you walk, speaks volumes about the person you are and your confidence level.
25. Make Yourself Seem Distinct
Cheesy pickup lines and ‘run of the mill’ ways of impressing a woman won’t help anymore. It’s better to be natural, yet show in a subtle manner that you are different from the rest.
26. Refrain From Touching Her Initially
A man has to prove that he’s a safe bet and not another soul who’s hungry for her flesh. Holding her without spending much time together might make her feel uncomfortable.
27. Interesting Topics To Converse
Find out what her interests are, maybe her Facebook or Twitter accounts should help you gather some idea about her interests. If she’s a tennis fan talking about Roger Federer and for a movie buff talking about the latest kickass flicks in town will skyrocket your chances. It will also make her think of you as a person who has similar interests. This is an important criterion women look for in a potential beau.
28. Be A Listener
Don’t interrupt, especially if she’s pouring out all her emotions in the form of words. If she’s speaking her heart out, that means she really trusts you and maybe that’s why she decided to confide her feelings. By interrupting too often you would be just be annoying her.